Pre-Birth Planning
Do We Choose Our Children Before Birth?
Few relationships change a person as deeply as the relationship between parent and child. A child can open the heart, challenge old patterns, awaken fears, deepen love, and change the direction of a life. For many parents, the bond with a child feels greater than biology or circumstance. It can feel profound, meaningful, and soul-level.…
Read MoreHow Do You Know If Something Is Part of Your Soul Plan?
Many people who explore pre-birth planning eventually ask the same question: How do I know if this experience is part of my soul plan? A relationship ends. A new person arrives. A challenge repeats. A door closes. A life event changes everything. And somewhere inside, you may begin to wonder whether it is random —…
Read MoreBruce Jenner’s Pre-birth Plan
I hope and trust you’re well.As many of the readers of this blog are outside the US and may therefore not be familiar with Bruce Jenner, I’d like to begin with some background.Bruce Jenner is an American who won the gold medal in the decathlon in the 1976 Summer Olympics in Montreal, Canada. He set…
Read MoreWhy Do We Forget Our Soul Plan After Birth?
If the soul helps plan certain life experiences before birth, why don’t we remember the plan? Why don’t we arrive with clear knowledge of our purpose, relationships, challenges, and lessons? This is one of the most common questions people ask when exploring pre-birth planning. At first, forgetting can seem confusing. If the soul created a…
Read MoreExcerpt from Your Soul’s Love
PREFACE YEARS AGO WHEN I WAS forty, my life was profoundly unfulfilling. I found the corporate work I was doing to be bland and devoid of any deeper meaning. Although I longed for a romantic relationship, I was unable to manifest one. I was drifting through life seemingly rudderless, going through the motions, each new…
Read MoreCan We Choose the Timing of Major Life Events Before Birth?
Some events seem to arrive at exactly the right moment. A relationship begins just when life is changing. A loss opens a deeper question. A career shift happens after years of uncertainty. An illness, move, ending, or awakening redirects the course of a life. At the human level, these moments may feel sudden or unexpected.…
Read MoreThe Pre-Birth Plan of The Fonz
Recently, I had the opportunity to hear Henry Winkler speak. For those unfamiliar with the name, Winkler played Arthur Fonzarelli (aka “The Fonz”) in the popular television show Happy Days, which was on the air here in the U.S. in the 1970s and 80s. Since then Winkler has gone on to star in, direct, and produce…
Read MoreHow Can We Have Free Will If We Plan Our Lives Before Birth?
One of the most common questions people ask about pre-birth planning is this: If we plan our lives before birth, do we still have free will? It is an important question. At first, the two ideas can seem contradictory. If the soul chooses certain life experiences before birth, does that mean everything is already decided?…
Read MoreA Soul Plan in Dying
I’ve been asked about Brittany Maynard and what may have been her pre-birth plan for the end of her life. She availed herself of Oregon’s Death with Dignity Law, and through physician aid in dying, ended her life in November of last year. On the day of her death, she posted on Facebook, “Today is…
Read MoreCan We Plan Illness Before Birth?
This is one of the most tender and difficult questions in pre-birth planning: Can we plan illness before birth? For many people, the idea is hard to understand. Illness can bring pain, fear, grief, uncertainty, and deep disruption to life. It can affect not only the person experiencing it, but also their family, relationships, work,…
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